FROM THE DEPT. OF BLOGGERS TAKING THEMSELVES TOO SERIOUSLY
You're validated by your blog? Please get a life, boys and girls. Oh, and:

“Before every freaking queen in the world got a blog, bloggers fell into two categories: cool people and connectors, who embraced technology early on,” Shellhammer says. “The others were freaks, dorks and scary people unable to make friends in traditional ways. Both these categories still exist.”...

...“Blogs, before anything else, are fun,” he says. “They allow people to create. And I think that’s a wonderful thing. Just don’t expect me to read the crap.”

Exactly. Witness the lack of Queerty on my blogroll.